Not dating in your 20s
There are some people who are important to date even if you never end up together.
As her number one reason “why relationships in your 20s just don’t work,” Leigh Taveroff writes for the website Today’s Lifestyle, “These years are extremely important: you’re meant to be finding out who you are and building a foundation for the rest of your life.
The major exception is if he can't afford a bed for legitimate reasons, which is much more understandable. The sooner you realize it, the sooner you can find someone who brings more to the table than being good in bed.
Lots of people go through periods of doing moronic things like driving too fast sans seatbelt, experimenting with dangerous drugs, and generally going through life like they've never heard of a terrifying little thing called death.
If she doesn't like you, you're either getting booted out of his life, becoming a secret he hides from his family, or turning into a major source of tension.
In reality, he should think it's awesome that you have interests other than him.